Cheryl accepts that Ashley still loves being single

Chelsea footballer Ashley Cole has given up sending Cheryl Cole flowers each day to try to woo her back.

He’s admitted to himself – and her – that he doesn’t trust himself to commit to the relationship. He loves the single life and hates being tied down to one woman.

‘He’s still very immature and loves a night out on the town with his mates,’ says Now’s insider.

‘This isn’t a definite end with Cheryl as they’re so up and down, but they’re cooling things.’

Ashley, 30, is believed to have got involved with four women while trying to get back with Cheryl, 28.

Among them was Collette McBarron, 26, who revealed Ashley felt that the weight of responsibility’ of being married was too much.

So how does Cheryl feel about Ashley fearing he can’t commit?

Sources say: Everyone expected Cheryl to be devastated, but when she told pals, she was really positive.’

Read the full story about Cheryl and Ashley Cole in Now magazine dated 29 August 2011 – out now!

Now cover 29 August 2011

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